Ever wonder what the secret to a sizzling sex life is?

Well, according to the author of The Essence of Tantric Sexuality, Mark A Michaels comma it's all about the erogenous zones - primary, secondary and tertiary.

Michaels reckons that if you've got your partner's sensitive areas sussed then you're on your way to a mind blowing time - promise!

He told the Sydney Star Observer: "The primaries are obvious, the lips, mouth, breasts, nipples, and the genitals. The secondaries are a little more obscure - the nape of the neck and the earlobe to name a couple - while many of the tertiaries may seem even more surprising - the thumb and little finger.

"When using this system, you begin by stimulating a secondary zone, then a primary, then a secondary, then a tertiary, and then a primary. The idea is to build arousal systematically and intentionally. Once you've learned to work with the zones in a formal way, you can improvise. It's really delightful."

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